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Principal's Message - Week 9, Term 2
Abigail’s Leadership
In my last newsletter article, I mentioned that I am currently working my way through the book of 1 Samuel. Recently, I read one of my favourite stories of the Old Testament, involving the very impressive Abigail. You can read about it in 1 Samuel 25.
If you are unfamiliar with her story, here is a brief summary. Abigail was the wife of Nabal, a wealthy but arrogant and foolish man whose name literally means “fool.” When David, the future king of Israel, and his men protected Nabal’s shepherds in the wilderness, they expected basic hospitality in return. But Nabal’s response to David’s request was a harsh insult, igniting David’s anger and prompting him to march toward Nabal’s household with the intent to destroy.
Abigail was not aware of the situation until one of Nabal’s servants had the foresight to inform her of what was likely to happen. Abigail quickly discerned the danger and acted with urgency, wisdom, and grace. Without informing her husband, she gathered a generous supply of food and rode out to meet David. She understood the moment and took responsibility, even when it was not hers to bear.
When Abigail meets David, she bows low, speaks humbly, and appeals not just to his emotions, but to his destiny. “The Lord will certainly make a lasting dynasty for my lord,” she says (verse 28), reminding David of God’s promises. She urges him not to shed blood in anger or take vengeance into his own hands. She was wise enough to appeal on moral, practical and theological grounds, all framed with humility and strength.
There were so many other ways she could have responded: in anger, in despair, in frustration, or bewilderment. She resists all these unhelpful responses and has the wisdom to understand what is really occurring in this situation and what is required to resolve it - for herself and also for her household.
Abigail shows that true leadership isn’t about titles or control; it’s about influence, integrity, and intervention at the right time. She responded with wisdom that calmed David’s wrath and redirected the course of events. David had the wisdom to recognise this immediately. He praises her: “Praise be to the Lord… who has sent you today to meet me. May you be blessed for your good judgment...” (verses 32–33).
God ultimately vindicates Abigail. Nabal dies shortly after, and David takes her as his wife, not as a reward for her beauty (though she is described as beautiful), but for her wisdom and strength of character. Abigail’s story reminds me that leadership is often revealed in crisis, not by shouting the loudest, but by bringing clarity, peace, and perspective when others are ready to fight.
God bless,
